“Having it all,” to me, means living a life that feels balanced, meaningful, and authentic—where the core aspects of life (health, relationships, purpose, and personal growth) are aligned with one’s values. It doesn’t necessarily mean excelling in every area at once, but rather feeling fulfilled with the choices you make and how they fit together.
Is it attainable? Yes—but not in the idealized, perfectionist sense that society often portrays. Attaining “it all” usually requires redefining what “all” means based on your own priorities, rather than external expectations. It also involves trade-offs, adaptability, and an acceptance that life is dynamic. So while it might not be possible to have everything, it is possible to feel like you have enough of what matters most.